After spending time with my brother and his friends, watching them watch soccer, I saw how they spoke to each other, laughing together (with me in the back laughing at them). It was easy to see why they are friends. Their personalities complemented one another so perfectly in that moment. This got me thinking about my own group of friends.

I have all kinds of friends. Every type from the ones who are ghetto as hell, hmmm not hood-rat ghetto more like ghetto fabulous. Friends who hang with me for my honesty and those who hate me for it. Friends who have never seen me cry to those whose shoulders are still damp from my tears. Friends who know nothing about me, the same friends who think CL stands for Comeback Later or something like that and a few who could blackmail me at any given time because they know way too much. Hell I even have friends who spend so much time behind my back that I doubt they know how my face looks.

 All of whom are crazy but none of them guys.

I am looking for a guy friend who thinks I'm beautiful enough to be beautiful but not enough to want to ' get with me'. One that will call me baby_doll and kiss my forehead.  Who will, without hesitation tell me he loves me ( that would be true too) and as sweet as he is would come rescue me when I'm stranded, jump/kick starting my car if I had one. He would pick me up and spin me around when one of us has done something worthy of our victory hug. In return for his friendship I will be the best man at his wedding and God mother to his children. I will give him a shoulder to cry on/not. Throw him surprise parties on his birthday, eat from his plate, sip from his drink and bug him. I will give him all my love, keeping a (almost) permanent smile on his face.

Photographer: Lebo luke warm